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Old Aug 23, 2011, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by vaffla View Post
wait, wait! you say there were things in the past you were scared to share with your T, yet you shared them, and that was a good experience, right? That is so important in my opinion!

That is supposed to teach you something, doesn't it? Think about your relationship with T throughout the years (months?) that you've known her. Think about the different things you have shared with her and her reaction to those. I am pretty sure reflecting on that would give you the answer to the question whether you're ready to share with her now or not.
Good luck!
But what's different now is that what I'm unable to be honest about are my complaints against her. Although, thinking about it now, I was able to tell her that her comments about the phone calls was like her taking a 2x4 to my naked heart. And she took that o.k, I guess.

Tomorrow, I think I'll go in and just tell her that I don't have the courage to be honest with her.