Dear {{{{{{Sleeps}}}}}}
Unfortunately I just saw this post today so I deeply apologize for no response until now. I forget whose sig this is in, but it's something like - treat people more kindly than necessary because you don't know what they're going through - my apologies to the person who uses this sig cause I probably didn't get it right...
...anyway, that is so true. I see you as such a positive, encouraging person, Sleeps, always quick to send a PM if you see someone else in pain. I would honestly have had no idea the hell you are currently living through.
Like another poster said, I sincerely wish there was something concrete I could do. Until and if I can think of something, please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.