In my mind it doesn't matter about whether you are gay, straight, bi, whatever. Do you really need to classify yourself? Who for? Can you just accept that whoever you are attracted to that's it. Just because you have feelings for same or opposite sex does not necessarily change who you will end up with if at all.

I don't know if I'm explaining this well, but I kinda see it as just letting attraction happen which ever gender it is, not looking to place yourself in one category. If you go on dates and decide you don't like that male or female, it doesn't mean you don't like all of those of that gender. I guess it seems to me like you're eager to know exactly what you are in terms of sexuality, but maybe dropping that could leave you feeling a lot more settled.