Abby,
I'm not sure how you are feeling, but it seems that you wanted some comfort not necessarily another tool for your toolbox today. At least sometimes I feel that way and am sometimes more open to suggestions on some days than others. I'm glad you are open to at least trying it. Maybe it was just not the day for it. Sometimes we just want to be heard and listened to and acknowledged or feel a little cherished..not an action plan. Maybe just be a little patient with her and look to yourself or someone else for a little snuggle and perhaps give yourself a little reward for being patient with yourself like a little mani, bubble bath or something that makes you feel special. I don't know if I am "hearing" you...I am trying... I hope you know at least that much.
Safe hugs and huggles...pax

Wysteria Blue