That must have been a frightening thing to feel

.. wondering if your mom has died.
I'm really bad about going to the doctors too..so I'll steer clear of
that subject.
Your mom is so very lucky to have such a caring daughter. I sure hope
your mom is doing better and doesn't have to have her tonsils out. (I had my tonsils out when I was 31 and it was so so NOT fun! yipes-- was so painful the first two days after surgery)
best to you and your family dearest Sabrina
fins