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Aug 24, 2011 at 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by billi_leli
I relate very much to feeling "annoying" and when I feel this way, I somehow make it even harder for myself and others.
When I feel this way, I withdraw, I feel frustrated, sad, shut down, ashamed.
I have felt like this most of my life.
Then it seems like ppl want to help me and then again, there goes the vicious cycle:
"See, people keep coming at you cause you are so needy."
Then I withdraw more.
I guess often I break this cycle by trying to fight the shame, but sometimes it still gets me.
Billi
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i'm really tired of being dependent. i cant take it anymore.
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