Hi Perz, a topic near and dear to my heart! I like this website (below). It references Millon, but also Harry Guntrip (old dead guy) and Jeffrey Seinfeld (still around), I admire both greatly and have their books. Hope this helps, would love to talk with you more on this. Also look at attachment? I get you - I once made a new year's resolution just to say yes when a coworker asked me to join them for lunch. How pathetic is that?!

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schiz...ality_disorder