I have to bring it up again and add something: you know what's one of the best thing about T regarding this whole incident? That I totally anticipated that after telling her what I did she would tell her son to block his FB wall from strangers like myself. And apparently she didn't, because it is still wide open. It suggests to me that she really did mean her words and she doesn't mind if me, or other people for that matter, do that.
She told me her children are adults and she doesn't tell them what to do, and that despite being very private from most people, she has no problem sharing information with people she is connected with (referring to me! To me!). That made me feel like a person, rather than a freak.
her!!!