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Old Aug 25, 2011, 02:50 PM
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I love the idea of dealing with these things as they arise. My problem in therapy (and life) is to let things go ...my jaw drops and then obsess about the things later. I rarely bring things up IN THE MOMENT. Part of the reason is that I'm afraid, for whatever reason, to just raise the issue with questions, which can be really constructive. I could just say, you know I've noticed that you have a lot of phone calls during session and you leap out of the chair to get them...or turn off the ringer and I'm wondering what's going on? Is there some emergency that you need to handle? I'm hoping that somehow I can broach the subject!