Hi, Just a little background first. I am 24 years old and I have been married for two years now. We had dated for only about 6 months before we were engaged(we were still in college when we were married). She was the first person I was ever intimate with. I felt that I have waited this long to be intimate then this is the person for me. Well, we bought a whole new wardrobe for me on my credit card and I joined a fraternity because she was in a sorority. I HAD to get a job outside of class(to support her). I changed my major of two years from Biology to computer science because thats what she wanted. Now to the present, we now own a house and have two dogs and very unhappy where I am at. Whenever we are with other people she degrades me in front of them and I laugh it off. I have talked to her about it yet she continues.
She wants to go off to Physicians Assistant school and I am happy where I am at now. She has pretty much got accepted to school and she is going to go to school and leave me here and visit on the weekends. I on the other hand would like to go and finish my biology degree. We can't live again on a students salary. Should I suck it up move from a great Job to help her through school or should I leave her being conflicts of interest? we have talked about this and she is going to school with or without me. I am so confused, maybe I am just being selfish.
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