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Old Aug 25, 2011, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by franki_j View Post
Does this mean she is planning to stop seeing me? Some sessions we do not talk about food at all, and just talk about my life, especially as it has been pretty stressful lately. We have also touched on some other issues as well, but sometimes I feel that she does not know how to handle those other issues quite as well as the eating ones (which makes sense, b/c EDs are her specialty.)

,,,,, but I don't want therapy to end. I would really miss her and be really hurt if she said, "OK, well we are going to start cutting back and then no more therapy."

....if I have reached my eating/weight goals, then is that all she can help me with?
Just a few questions I have: Does your ED become induced by stress? If so do you feel like you now have the tools to overcome the stressors and continue on the path of health?

What other areas does your T cover? If you feel like you want to explore working on other areas of your life I would ask T if that's something she can help you with.

Perhaps you can stop going to T for a month and see how you feel?

When I first went to my T it was to unload all the stuff from my past (abuse stuff). Then it evolved into my relationships with others, self esteem, and my obesity. I'm now at a very healthy weight for the first time ever and my T is proud of me . Working on oneself is neverending it's just a matter of deciding you need your T to help you with it or not. I have my last appt coming up with T after seeing her for 3 1/2years and I will miss her dearly. I am eternaly thankful for all that she has done for me.

PS Congratulations!!!
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