Belle, I know you have a lot of anger and it is always good to get it out. It sounds like you were the one that was the better, kinder, more considerate.

But, just to let you know, when someone cheats or lies to another person they carry a lot of guilt. And when that happens they are often mean to the person they have hurt if they continue to hold in the deceit. And even though they many eventually admit the lie or cheating they will still feel undeserving of that other person. It is not really on a conscious level but is often apparent in their actions.

You are a very forgiving person, but that doesn't guaruntee you a continued connection with one who has deceived you. You can forgive someone but you cannot make them forgive themselves. AND, there are those people in the world that cannot be true to anyone and once they are discovered, they just leave and move onto someone else.

You are much too pretty to use swear words. You can be just as effective without them.

Open Eyes