I probably cause a lot of trouble for my T and the next clients, I notice the door to the waiting room has been closed the last several times. Or maybe his schedule is just getting busier as people return to campus. I am trying to tone it down and we just say all our goodbyes in the office, not the hall. I need, I like a lot of goodbyes! And hellos.

One time as I was leaving, the next client jumped up and followed me out, looking at me from the outer door! Then she said like Oh! and popped back in. At my next session, I aked T if that was the woman he had double-booked me with recently, he said no, and told me he had seen what this client had done, but was unable to stop her, and asked me if it had bothered me. I said no, us famous people are used to such things! T laughed and said he appreciated my understanding.

Now that my relationship with T is more secure, ie I am started to feel truly attached, I don't feel jealous like I used to (REALLY did!), and I feel I can try to act more appropriately and show consideration for others' feelings.

Also, what IS the T r/s? How can he FORGET that he TOLD -ME- about buying this particular sports team jersey? I am the one who told HIM about the movie about the team (sorry to be vague, there is a little more to it than that). Is this a man thing? An age thing? Is he just that good at splitting off work from home? This perTICular incident (it keeps happening!) makes me feel like I don't even exist to him, when actually I think he should buy me a freakin engagement ring for telling him about the movie at all. This is why they should be a blank slate!

OTOH (also ringless), we are now working on why I would glom onto someone I hardly know for the smallest reason (like a stupid movie). I said I feel like a cow smacked on the cow catcher on the front of a train. I guess cows are not known for being smart.