Thank you, all of you for your replies.

Last night I was so angry at "Mr. Perfect" I could hardley see straight. I wanted to rip his face off but knew that was no way to settle the matter. I ended up going upstairs and reading a book on anger. Didnt help. I never did journal like I should have and I didnt talk to hubby either. Didnt even call him from work today.

I have to get my thoughts together before I talk to him because I dont want to go to him with my thoughts scattered.

I am angry because I feel like it all comes back on me. YES, I do have alot on my plate. I know this. I also know that people do make mistakes but when I have to hear that amplified by the Mr, it makes me angry with myself too.

I think when we talk I might suggest he take things over for a while, as far as paying the bills. At least until I can get back into the swing of things with work. The settlement on the house in TX is supposed to me on or before April 1st. Since that falls on a Saturday, I assume it will take place on the 31st. At least when that is over with, I will not have to contend with any more bills there. So that should take a load off.

I also need to get a little more organized so this does not happen again in the future. A calendar should help and I need one of those bill organizers too.

Right now, this is the last thing I want to deal with. Just got home from work and about to get dinner started. We are having turkey burgers. YUMMY

Thanks again you guys. He makes me me so angry with myself when he points out my faults