I'm just guessing right now, and I could be way off base, but I kind of wonder if it has something to do with the seizures? Maybe he's scared or depressed that he couldn't help you? One of my best friends had random seizures like that before we met. She has told me that she actually lost a lot of friends because of it. I personally don't understand why.

Do you have a T that you can discuss these things with? I'm really not sure how to stop the fighting, either. Maybe you need to try to sit down with him and talk the whole thing out, though it sounds like you already tried that and it didn't get very far... Maybe try writing him a letter and ask him to also respond in writing?

I'm sorry I don't have any better ideas. I really hope you can get to the bottom of this. Good luck!