I'm honestly beginning to wonder if I'm being too hard on him... I wonder if there's really just a personality clash between me and him (which is kind of weird to say, since I've never met him or spoke to him myself; for all I know we'd get along great). But I just find every time I read something by him, I get aggravated. I feel like I should have more compassion for him, because he's hurting and has been through a lot, but for whatever the reason, it's not there. The other issue is that I was probably way worse towards my fiance, but I'm not really proud of those days and avoid thinking about them. I realize it's hard to give advice, when all I want to really say is that if you're happy now, then it doesn't matter how you got there, except you guys aren't happy now, but what I mean is if you both feel like you could be truly happy again in the future, then stay together. But that's hard to, because negative emotions feel like they're going to go on forever. I'm getting stuck with this issue... I'm talking in circles and not making any sense...

But I do feel like a little time apart would do you both good right now, but that's my feeling on the matter. I know this is such a hard issue to figure out because it's completely emotional. Your rational mind is pretty useless right now...

I'm sorry I can't be anymore help, I'm getting myself confused...