Yes I do. I married my soul mate. I warn you though, someone will have their heart broken. My husband died, and I'll never get over it. I wouldn't want to. I'd rather miss him every day than forget him. The pain keeps him close.

If you can handle the risk of that heart break, then I'd say go for it. When we first talked you couldn't stop us... we had so much to share, so much in common. By three weeks I knew he was the only man for me. I'd guessed as much for weeks. It was worth the pain of bereavement and loss to have had those years with him... I honestly do think that you can know from very early in a relationship. But in the end, it's never what someone else thinks, it's only what you know that matters.