I have been with my husband for 8 years. I have caught him on several occasions having emotional affairs with different women. Each time I caught him, he tells me he is sorry and won't ever do it again. And I have caught him lying to my face about things when he gets caught and he always says he is just joking around. Now I am in therapy because I can't take the hurt and pain anymore and I have told him to leave and get help. I have been to 3 counseling sessions already and he keeps telling me he has a number for a therapist for sexual addiction but he has not set up an appointment yet. What are the chances that he will set up the appointment to get help? I really love him and want this marriage to work, but I have my doubts that he wants to get help.