Do you guys think age really makes a difference when it comes to love and is it going to affect a relationship when the couple gets older? Here’s the thing, my girlfriend (Mandy) is four years older than me. This isn’t a problem to me and I think I’m attracted more to older woman. My first girlfriend (Jessica) was four months older than me and my best friend (Rachel) who was my second love even though she was a lesbian was three years older than me.

When Mandy was out yesterday I was having a conversation with my parents and they said they think she might be too old for me which I think was a very hypocritical statement considering my father is six years older than my mother. My parents have never been great for advice and they were basically never there for me when Jessica passed away but they got me thinking. Should I be worried about this or just ignore them because they are trying to mess with my head again?

I love Mandy and she loves me and nothing can change the way I feel about her. This is the woman I want to marry one day and grow old with and I want her to be the mother of my children too. I just don’t want her to feel uncomfortable with it when we are older. She looks more like she’s only twenty one or twenty two and I don’t think many people can tell she is older than me. She never tries to ‘mother’ me because of our age difference but she is more experienced with some things than I am and I have already learned a lot from being with her.