I sometimes try to make an effort to look more relaxed, but for the most part I'm aware I'm not looking at him. crossing my legs, sometimes my arms, sometimes swinging my leg or rubbing my hands nervously on my leg or shifting around in the chair nervously. For the most part I let myself do it. I usually imagine myself sitting somewhere else in the room but I don't do it. I imagine sitting on the floor or in a different chair. We actually just sit in the two comfortable chairs, we switch which ones. T's room is very small, so there's not a lot of other space.