Coming from a recovering sex/porn addict... It usually takes hitting rock bottom for you to realize what you're putting at stake. I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years on 7 different occasions & broke up with him because I knew my lying was unacceptable. Followed that by 8 1/2 months of crazy excusions & unforgivable acts... Then I found the one. I told him immediately about my past & everything I've done & he's been the main reason why I've decided to recover. He's been keeping me motivated & satisfied, meanwhile helping me along my path of understanding the reasons behind my addiction. That's often the most important key to full recovery: Finding the factors motivating the addiction, as well as having a strong support system. The filter on his computer & the preventative measures are only the start. Group meetings are good, but not always the best for some people... Between preventing behaviours & your assistance/support, he also needs to seek a therapist if he really wants to get well for you. Otherwise, it might be best to get out of that poisonous situation & make him hit rock bottom...