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Aug 28, 2011, 12:06 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: colorado
Posts: 7
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I would say 90% of the time my husband of 5 years and I fight is because he is upset about how I have hurt his feelings. It always starts as something like I criticized him.
And Always turns into you don't care about me and you don't listen to me.
I fell frustrated cause no matter what I try to do it always ends up as a all day thing where he will talk at me telling me how I don't care or listen all day.
Really all day 9am-12am. I can barley get a word in all day and if I interrupt him to try and address one of the many many things he is now upset about he gets even madder and hits himself in the head. So I shut up. Then he is mad cause I am not in the conversation.
Then he starts in on me again the next day saying he is still not resolved. This usually results in me blowing up and yelling at him.
Not sure what to do, I tried reading all kinds of things on communication and how to fight , and books on marriage. I do know I am not as good as he as at communication and have be feeling depressed. So maybe this is my fault. I don't know.
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