it IS a great thread. I fidget -- or else sit overly still, not much in between. My T has a couch across from a window and I stare out at that sometimes. Eye contact has been an issue with the two of us and I think he sees more eye contact as better, but I have a hard time really getting nto what I need to cover AND looking straight at him. Oh well. Seems like it's my therapy and I'll do this the way I need to....Ha!