I will post here... Its completely possible to get married or whatever other long term commited rlationship you have. Zoey does dissociate to more of an extent than I do and I really would not ask her to change a thing. If she wantes to change something thats her deal and her decision and i will support her. I love zoey completely. So I guess if you love them and they love you and they arent asking you to change something you are not ready to or wanting to its all good.