Today in my session I told my T how I felt about hearing her tell the next client how much she liked his haircut. She thanked me and said she learns from me, that she never thought about that at all! She said she would try not to do it again.

I told her how we clients are very possessive our Ts and how many of us analyze everything about them, and how important they are to us. I've told her that several times. I'm not sure she understands but maybe it's sinking in. I know she's been in therapy but I don't think she had any attachment problems.