WOW, that sux hanners. I am so sorry he did that to you. I have to say that you are much better off without someone like him even though you cannot see that right now. If you couldn't accept YOU for YOU, you shouldn't let him rent any place in your head.

I hope it gets easier for you. I see your mood is shocked, but there are real assholes out there who aren't worth your time of day.

Again, I am so sorry he did this to you. Someone will come along when you least expect it who WILL accept you for you.