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Aug 30, 2011, 09:59 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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Originally Posted by radio_flyer
Maybe I am the "nut" here. If the neighbor's car lights are on, I knock on their door and tell them the lights are on. If a pot is burning on the stove, and I wasn't the one cooking, I will turn the pot off. If I see a fire in the middle of the floor, I put it out, not walk past it and let it burn. If there is a hole in the yard that is hard to see, I let folks know, not watch them fall in it...If the clerk gives me too much money back, I return it.....Maybe it is me that needs to change. If I see a hungry person, I give them food, and not eat in front of them...Maybe I am the nut here....
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((radioflyer)) these are good qualities, so don't change. You're a nut, but for other reasons, lol (all good) 
If I were in your situation, I'd be angry too. She appears disrespectful and selfish. She may be AJ's girlfriend, and it may be his house - but it's YOUR home. Still, I'd try to stay out of their relationship as much as possible. AJ needs to see this girl for who she is and whether or not she's worth losing his job over - but he needs to see it for himself. If it comes from you, you run the risk of having her turn it around and him blaming you for causing their problems.
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