She is competent to refuse assistance. She hasn't seen a doctor in 12 or 13 years (we have the same family physician). She wants to do it her way. It's going to be a challenge. She doesn't accept that not answering the phone and not returning calls is even a problem. <deep breath>

When a martyr gets old.....

I appreciate the concern. But I am so tired right now. She sucks my energy, like no other person can. I feel like I am stunned.

Lar