(((((( mala )))))) Thanks a lot for the support. A lot of people (with issues I might add) are offended by my style because I am action oriented and I tell you straight up what's wrong with you. As Dr. David Burns says, being supportive and talking about problems may make you feel better but in the end it leaves you in the same mess you were in. I want to GET OUT of here, not be stuck in here feeling lovey-dovey. And when I see another person in need I want to help them get out too. At the very least this way I feel like my life is having a positive impact rather than just being wasted in sickness. Whenever I feel stuck it's especially helpful to me to help others because seeing them improve makes me feel like it's not hopeless and encourages me to try and get better.