Wow! these are really good talks. (IMO)

I know our culture-- that is sex crazed- doesn't want to hear how
damaging porn can be-- for both men and women.

sure seems like it's all pessimistic-- the outlook -- one can only
hope that the populace will take heed and embrace the gender differences for what they really are-- two halves -- which TOGETHER- make it whole.

I thought Halla Tomasdottir--- had the right idea--
http://www.ted.com/talks/halla_tomasdottir.html
it's so so important to appreciate what each and every person brings to the table.....