Hey there,

I am a sex addict and I go to Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. SLAA and am helped tremendously by the meetings. I tried to make no pornography and no masturbation my bottom lines but couldn't stick with it. The problem was I would go without masturbating for a week and then do it. Having not done it for a week it would feel so much better thereby making me wait a week and then feel the heightened feelings. So I made it my bottom line to not do it compulsively. That means that once a day max.

I find that addictions are like the whack the mole game at chuck e cheese's. You whack one addiction down and then another pops up. For me I almost feeling that I need to just accept the least damaging addiction and fight the others. Who knows.

Love and hugs,
Tara