Ugh, this would so bother me too, Rain, and you've every right to be upset. My T's office complex has a front door on the main level and a back door on the lower level, which her office is located on. I use that door specifically for this reason. Do you know if such a door exists that you could use to avoid the situation altogether? It's so hard because, during a session, we are T's main focus. This feels good and so we associate this feeling with T whenever and wherever we see her, even outside of our appointment time such as coming into or going out of session. This feels special and unique to the both of us. It's hard to believe that T shares the same thing with others, isn't it? That's where the hurt and discomfort comes from - it comes with a jolt. Something I'd rather avoid at all costs. Just as long as T is happy in her job and does it well and that we're able to relate well to one another, that's all I care about