Interesting thought, Echoes.. But nah, I don't want her to be like me. I would just like her to wake aj in the mornings, since she is in the same room as aj and most mornings she is up before aj....I don't find any pleasure running upstairs and knocking, then banging on the bedroom door to wake aj.... She reminds me a bit of my younger days, when I was friendly, talkative and high energy..We are similar, yet different, which is good.

For example, the dogs, (2 pugs) ran outside and stood on the patio, watching aj, from afar, flipping out this morning, tossing plastic containers all over the floor. Aj was ranting, screaming I was selfish and that I couldn't even make something for his lunch today.. shrugs shoulders.....Anyway, the look on the dogs faces was precious and made me smile, considedring the turmoil in the kitchen.....Bottom line, AJ treats me like cr ap and believe me, I don't go running about giving him advice on his relationships. I am the last person to give advice to anyone on relationships.

Yup, she is who she is.. No doubt about that... They deserve each other.. And I don't even whisper an opinion to either of them...They want to spend the "good years" their 30s fighting and fussing everyday, is their choice...I don't really care. I am just sick of hearing the fights, as I told them, my plan is to use ear plugs and/or turn the volume on the radio on high. They can fuss and fight and scream and cry all they want...Is as you said, thier choices and their lives..

All I do is make the breakfast and after this morning not sure how much longer I will be doing this... But then if it means helping to get AJ "out the door" for work, means I prob will continue serving breakfast.

I don't intrude in their lives. Dealing with aj is like walking on mine fields.. I prefer to stay on my side of the fence. Maybe with some "luck" my side of the fence will be in totally different "time zone"...