I am a white English girl who has been in a relationship with an Iranian guy for almost a year now. Things were going quite well between us, apart from the occassional misunderstandings we had based on language barrier. Recently though, my boyfriend's brother, who lives not that far away, invited us both to his house so that we can meet. The meeting was pleasant, I spoke to his heavily pregnant wife, while my bf was catching up with his brother. We then invited them over to our house and a week later they showed up. From the time they arrived they spoke only Persian - which I don't understand. I tried starting topics in English, several times, but that didn't work too well as the three of them would just end up speaking in their language. It was then decided to have a bbq, the brother took over my kitchen like it was his, ruled over my bf as to what to prepare etc. I was really annoyed by this plus I still had no idea what was being said so I kept on asking my bf 'what did he say' and so on. I also said to my bf that I wasn't happy with the situation and that I'd appreciate if they spoke English. My bf spoke to his brother about it - and a few minutes later the brother said they were leaving.
Like this wasn't bad enough, few weeks later, brother's wife delivered a baby, and the brother said to my bf that he is invited to see the little boy, only if he comes alone without me.
What do I do in this situation???