i'm 42, codependent and living with my girlfriend for the last couple months. before we moved in together we thought our finances were going to improve, well they haven't and that in addition to my coda situation is making things really hard on us. this is getting to the point that i seriously thought about moving out, but i have no where to go. i thought about moving all my stuff into a storage unit and i could stay there until i get on my feet. i can't afford therapy at the moment but i'm really eager to start. i began reading "codependent no more" the other day. i have found a support group that meets once a week and i plan on going to the next meeting. this is really getting serious. my girlfriend has been very supportive and my coda situation and with my exwife/visitation schedule with my kids. that's a whole different frustration for us that's putting a lot of stress on our relationship. i have to get better soon..that's the reality of it. i don't know what to do....any advise would be awesome!!!