To those who thinks he feels "lost" i can pretty much assure you this is not the case. For emamples i said to him i'm really sorry that i have been so mean to you lately, i love you and i dont want to hurt you so i'm gonna try and let you know how i'm feeling instead of just exploding at you. A while later i asked him for help with something he sighed and didnt move, (time was a factor because i had my hands in plaster that was drying quickly), basically because he didnt help me it was ruined. I was FUMING mad, but i said very calmly "i really wish you would have helped me back there it would have taken one second, i'm upset that you just sat there while i struggled" a caring...protector...would have said i'm sorry and maybe had an excuse....he however said "shut up".