he is 20 she is just 18 i hear on the grape vine this isn't the first time she shouted rape, not sure if she did go to the police as her ex wouldn't discuss it with me even though we know him, so i said fair enough and left it there, but i made contact with social services about all this so there is something on record if it ever came to that she did say this to the police, as son has been on meds since being a child and being classed as disabled mentally, because of his adhd and needing prompting to do stuff like personnel hygiene and such