Call me a hopeless optimist who believes in the power of people to heal, but I don't think that anyone is unhelpable. Dr. Andrew Weil says that every cell in our body is designed to heal itself, without any conscious help from us. I think that the same is true for our hearts and spirits. They are designed to heal, that is the nature of what they WANT to do.

Keep posting. Say some more about what you feel like, if you feel like it.

Anne