Thanks, everybody, for all your support.

The hardest thing I face is this. If I have any buttons that can be pushed, she's the installer of them. She's my perpetrator.

My sister and I had to de-brief each other last night, and we made a pact. Neither of us sees her alone, and we always de-brief afterwards. We're meeting tomorrow to map out strategies, based on services available to us.

The grief is post-poned. Best to manage the suffering.

Thanks again,
Lar