@nerdosaurus: That's a great idea. I'm going to talk to him about it later.

@Visioneer: I think you misinterpreted some things.

1.) My CURRENT guy has NOT cheated on me, but I have been cheated on (not threesome related) and have seen that many men do that when threesomes happen.

2.) I am NOT willing to cheat on him or I would've just done the s**t and not had a need to say anything about it on here. Hence me saying that it could be considered cheating even though it's another girl, that's why I HAVEN'T done it.

3.) Please quote where I said I'll be afraid he'll be upset by the situation. I never said that. He WOULD LOVE to do it (as he's never had 2 women be intimate with each other while with him), but I'M scared of the aftermath because of MY prior experiences.

4.) He can stray whether it's in a threesome OR behind my back. I'm scared of that either way with ANY man I'm dating. I don't trust well, regardless of how good the relationship is...and this one is great.

I'm not being hostile in the slightest, just wanted to clear those things up.