I like IceCreamKids suggestion - I think you should try to live on your own or with another lady who's similar age. You could volunteer maybe at a seniors center because they can always use an extra hand...perhaps organize some sort of hobby or craft projects. If you live in a nice apartment complex you could join one the groups in your building -there's bound to be something. I don't know your age but you could also look into a walkers group - sometimes they meet up at malls before they open or on weekends outdoors. Anything that puts you in touch with possible friends who would be expecting to see you on a regular basis. BTW its nice to see you posting and knowing your job is going well.