I'm sorry addiction is in your family too. It's so very hard to see loved ones struggling with it.

I've lost family members and have a brother that is much like dottie's brother-- except mine has served time in jail and has had two DUIs. He still thinks AA is a joke. I fear he will end up like our family members that have lost their lives early to addiction.

I also agree with Petunia.... one has to stop for themselves. I do believe that frame of thought is best also for loved ones-- that way, if they do fail-- it's not about anyone but themselves. It's not that they don't love us... that they went back..... I think it's how they value themselves and how strong they are to overcome the addiction-- I believe it's not about us loved ones and how much they do or don't love us.

My fingers are also crossed for your mom. I know one thing.... she's very lucky to have a daughter that loves her as much as you do. All the best to you- desirae.

mandy