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Old Sep 01, 2011, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Phoboxyl View Post
Wysteria,

I shouldn't have diagnosed Saxon as I was instructed not to do so. I apologize for that.

However, my claims are not medically inaccurate at all and I am not simply "googeling" my information as you put it. It seems you are upset with me for acting like an "authority" on the matter when you feel that I am not qualified. Understood, I'm not an authority, but there's no need to tear me down. The fact of the matter is I have personal experience with this matter and I am qualified to give my OPINION on what it is. I wasn't diagnosed formerly but I apparently suffered from Depersonalization disorder (DPD) together with Panic Disorder for something like a year and a half when I was younger (and very few relapses ever since). The term "dissociative episode" is real medical nomenclature and if you actually had "googled" it you would see that. I didn't learn this term from google anyway, I learned it from a psychotherapist when I was describing my SYMPTOMS. As for the explanation for DPD and acute dissociative episodes, there is a body of literature on the subject which has dealt with its evolutionary origins and at least one major theory holds that it is a survival strategy that is out of control.

I am offended and hurt by your suggestion because it is invalidating, and the whole point of NOT GIVING DIAGNOSES in the first place is to avoid INVALIDATING OTHER PEOPLE. Anyway, I don't want to go on about this or argue, I just wanted to let you know that what you said isn't cool, that I'm sorry for overstepping the boundaries on PC, and that I contributed something meaningful and not simply "concocted". I wouldn't do that.
Dear Phoboxyl,

You know, I reread my post and realized I made an *** of myself and for that I am deeply and horribly apologetic and am so very sorry. I am deeply ashamed of myself and make a very public apology for offending you and invalidating you. I am truly very, very sorry. I think I misread what you were saying and reacted totally inappropriately. I just came back online tonight and have been gone a week or I would have apologized much sooner.

I think was sort of reacting to you sort of diagnosing her and was honestly just hoping she would go to some medical or scientific sites for information about all the dissociative disorders and to some experts that would listen to her concerns and validate her fears and symptoms, but I should never have reacted to you or invalidated you in the process.

Please accept my most sincere and abject apologies. I will be so much more careful in what I say and how I say it in the future...Again, I am truly sorry for hurting your feelings and making you feel bad....

Most Respectfully,

Wysteria Blue
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