Yeah, i've been wondering about you saying, these are the child's feelings. Not ringing true to me for some reason? Do you have a daughter, sisters, close female friends - what is that situation? SIL, MIL? Or do you think maybe you need to grieve your mom some more? Why now? What advice would your mother give you about something going on in your life right now, or that you are seeing T for, or about your r/s with your husband? Just flying blind here.