Okay you guys, all my friends with thousands of people reading this site. I once put horse$*&^ on a newspaper and put it in T's mailbox. You see, she did more damage then good, was just a licensed social worker. Did not have a clue how to deal with me and made a statement about my competing with the mother and brother for his attention. She was so screwed up, she would give 5 min notice and cancel appointments. She was obviously not good in the field at all but it took seeing my current T who is very good at trauma work to realize the damage the first had done. I thought the horse stuff was the perfect metaphor.

By the way, I have NEVER felt like doing anything mean to curent T and we go back a long ways. She is integrity and acceptance, professionalism and ethical. Can you tell I really like her?