Hi day by day,

I don't think you are asking for too much although I can't help but wonder how you made it so far without him saying that he loves you. Do you feel that he really does even though he doesn't say it?

Have you ever asked him why or have you left it as it is with you wondering why but not asking?

His proposal doesn't sound very romantic or meaningful. Please don't read that the wrong way, you may not be able to see me but my intentions are not to offend.

Maybe he is not used to showing much emotions and would feel a little weak to display any. Although you are engaged do you feel ready to marry a man who seems to have problems being open with you? I am not saying don't marry him but perhaos a few things neeed to be considered and discussed before you make that final commitment.

And no I don't think you are asking too much for him to say it. Women have a need to be told things when a man expects that they know. Unfortunately that's the way it goes but you can teach him and he can teach you how the other communicates best. Maybe he will be more open with you and finally tell you those three words you are longing to hear.

Saying his family shows no emotion is a bit of a cop out. Because they do it doesn't mean he has to continue the cycle. If you both want to make your relationship work maybe you both have to meet in between.

I hope some of that helps somehow