Since my aunt passed away and since I am recovering from some heavy issues, I have decided to no longer celebrate my birth birthday, Sep. 7.

My new birthday is on February 21, 2011.

I will still turn 44 on Sep. 7, but all I will do is thank my mother for giving me my life.

But Feb. 21 2011 was the day that I chose to no longer consciously follow any more abusive messages or take any more cr*p from people.

I truly was reborn that day.

So that's my new birthday.

(mods, if this is not in the right place, please move it. thanks, Billi)