Thanks jwabf
My massage T is really good. She also works with clients with their clothes on unless they request something different. he also has a ton of training as a T but never got a license because she couldn't agree with a lot of the politics and junk. But she will do all the safe touching and holding kind of stuff that a lot of T's will not.

I think Elestial is severely autistic (I'm aspi) so I am not sure if she would be OK with finger paints or not. I have some though so I will make sure they are out for her with the big paper. May try playing in shaving cream too. It is SO hard for me when I can't figure out what the parts need or how to get it for them. I think I may be pulling out all the art supplies tomorrow... which means just about any art medium you could imagine other than oil paint!