While they were away on vacation?
Does it even make sense that they miss us?
T left me a message this morning, in which she calmed me down significantly . She said she missed me.
I know it was supposed to make me feel better, and it did, but I can't help but feel that it was disingenuous.
How can she miss me?
She just saw me Wednesday. I know I miss her so much because of my attachment issues. But she doesn't have similar attachment issues, and I know that despite the fact that she cares about me a great deal, her feelings are not similar to mine.
So I don't believe she really misses me.
And it bothers me that she said that if it's not genuine.
Because it makes me doubt other things she said.
Because my mother wasn't a genuine person.
And on top of it all, I feel guilty for doubting that .
Here is a person who cares about me and tries to make me feel better, and when he tells me he misses me, I doubt it.
Do you think I might have trust issues?

Did any of your T ever told you he or she missed you? Could you trust that? Is it possible she really misses me or is it more likely that she said it just to make me feel better?

I know these are stupid, obsessive questions . Sorry.