Thought I'd respond as I did read your thread.

I guess for me sometimes psychologically I am in a better place than at other times. Sometimes I am looking for a great indepth discussion, exploration of issues and I may feel more able to think about a title. However at other times, for me it is just a case of wanting to know I am not alone on this planet and then just the first thing I can think of springs into my head - at those times for me it is not possible to think objectively in terms of my "advert".

Also in terms of replying to threads, sometimes I feel in a place where I have energy and want to give advice and support others who may be expressing a need, other times if I myself am having a tough time, I may actively avoid those posts as I feel unable to give and don't want to feel more overwhelmed.

I do take your point though in terms of titles and which threads catch my eye.